Sunday, May 30, 2010

Baskhari, Uttar Pradesh

Many of you must not be knowing that Baskhari is a small village in eastern Uttar Pradesh with almost no access to internet and sans any modern facilities a few regional board schools and only one CBSE board schools thats all this place have got in terms of educational infrastructure.
So whats so special about this place that i am blabbering about it and giving a trademark copied style of detailed description about this place......?????
Well the specialty is the discussion which i had with one of my friend & classmate whose basically from the same place, during lunch few days back while we were watching a movie, don't expect me to tell you the name of the movie.........not that i have got to do something secret or suspicious with the movie..its just that i don't remember the name.....wonder y you got so serious about it. ;-). 
Well in the movie the actress confessed about her sexual relation with one of her friend after she got married as we munched down the last bit of the roti who was demonstrating its elasto plastic property to perfection. The confession was coming after more than two decades of there marriage. To this confession her husband reacted as expected madly..and abandoned her.
To this i candidly asked my friend " what you would've done if your wife would've confessed of having sex with some other man..?? Not with an intent to cheat upon you..but take it is as just one off moment or say weak moment of her life.
And the reply which came from him was the least bit of what i had expected.......at least not from some one who for the most of his life lived in a small village....and had no exposure to the so called modern and Hippocratic life style..the words he said in the reply to ma question was 
"....kya karoonga..kuch nahi...will ignore and move on...(pause)..agar wo ek moment  bardaasht kar k jhel jaaoge na to aage ki life kitni set and love filled ho jaayegi u cant even imagine....."
i was literally floored at this reply  of his...wonder how many men from the so called metro cities will be having such broad horizon of thinking and level of maturity. I m sure not much....and given a chance they wont miss an opportunity to indulge in the same if they get an opportunity to score with some other girl or women no matter how the lady sitting back his home is loyal and honest to him......

4 comments:

  1. dude u need to have such guy in ur life!!!!111

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  2. lol....crazy friend of urs i must say...but cool man..!
    im sure u would have never answered like that...do u have such a broad open vision??! ;D
    its easy to say we will move on...but hard to take the reality the way it comes!

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  3. @innayat-If u think my reply or response would've been different from what my frnd said thn i gues u dnt knw me tht well.. :( :(

    @reeti:- he is single...baat chalaun?? :P :P

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  4. agar uska yehi rxn ulta pad gya uski biwi pe toh???? :P

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